Mel, I posted in agreement with you, so that means I feel the same as you. Obviously, your post was so good that you receives some very good responses... meaning "Dexter." I admire him VERY much and takes what he says almost as Gospel.

Also, if you have something that's bothering you and you say nothing, how is it going to get better? If your post was a reflection of an insecurity, you got it out there in the open, found out that there are others that have the same insecurities and now you feel better, right? ...and so do others, like me! hehe

When you see the "view count" go up with no added responses? It's probably be coming back to read and re-read, ok? LOL No... honestly. I want to give more time to Dave's posts.