(((bebop)))

I would say that you and your hub should look into sex or marital counseling.

Perhaps there are physical changes in your husband's body, causing less interest in sex. It's certainly possible that the stresses you're under have affected his sexual interest in you. A lot of times, we aren't too interested in sex with a stressor. I hope that I haven't mis-worded this post! I'm not trying to say, "It's all your fault." Just saying that may be his perspective right now.

That's why I recommend meeting with an impartial 3rd party. A marriage therapist might be more helpful to you, as you discuss a broader range of life. Imo, it's more likey to get down to what's going on emotionally. Then, you can work out these feelings with one another. Sexual therapists typically briefly discuss emotional topics and quickly go on to discuss healthy, happy sex lives.

That is my humble opinion. Very best wishes to you!