i think it might be a good thing that h is starting to recognize the difference...maybe that means he's starting to acknowledge that there ARE differences and that he's going to have to get used to that... i hope that's what it means.

i completely understand not wanting that exposed feeling... it's never pleasant. i hope that you will feel better able to assert your own thoughts... you can speak for yourself and he apparently needs to learn that. you're very articulate here. i'm glad that T helps to redirect back to you.

((((((((((crystal))))))))))))))

if you ever want to talk, or if i can ever be of any help, just let me know, ok?


shadow