i am very new to this, so please be patient. i guess i should start with i broke up with my ex over a year ago because i just wasnt feeling it anymore. i didnt have THOSE feelings anymore. she is still around in my life because whenever i meet someone new i compare them to her. she is hands down the sweetest, nicest, good-natured person i have ever met. i can imagine her being a great wife, mother, partner, etc. but i just dont feel IT. it seems no one compares and i get sad, a lot. she loves me more than anything, true love. all she wants is me and i cant give it to her. i feel SO responsible for her being upset all the time. recently i told her i would try but we hung out a few times and nothing. now, not to sound like scum, but i was sleeping with someone else during this time. she found out and said i didnt actually try with her and whats wrong with me. asked if i would go to counseling and begged me to not give up on her. i guess i just dont know what to do. i dont feel that sexual/personal connection with her...but i get sad ALL the time when i think of her. i need some advice....sorry if this is drawn out, thank you