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Originally Posted by lostandlonely
while I appreciate the above poster's comments, I never said it was completely the guy's fault. my point is that i keep attracting men who are emotionally unavailable. when you say I don't have to date them what are you talking about? the whole point of my post when I say I attract these types is obvious that i'm dating them...that's the point..that i'm dating commitment phobes. this is not a post about why i attract commitment phobes as friends, it is about why i keep dating these types so i don't really get what you are pointing out.
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"For whatever reason I always seem to scare the men off."
"We got along so well, had so many fun times and laughs and were truly compatible and the chemistry was amazing."
"We were both so happy together and it was the most amazing feeling."
Your response made my point better than I could. Thats right, YOU are dating them. The very guys you say you keep attracting and don't like, YOU date them. I didn't say you blamed him 100% but that seems to be the normal tone here that it must be the guys fault and woman accept no responsibility for their own choices. Your statements above indicate to me that maybe the compatibilty and chemistry were not as great as you thought leading me to believe that maybe this was more wishful thinking than reality. In any case, I am sorry for your loss and hope that either you two find a solution or you find someone who you are compatible with.