Daughter was recently diagnosed as having a colloid cyst. Neurosurgeon is just waiting and monitoring as if they operate it will be a full-blown craniotomy with so many risks involved. She has now had a headache for four days. She tells me today the pain is at a 9.5. Her neurosurgeon is not calling back nor is the nurse. We have no insurance but if I take her to er they will have to see her. The problem is we are a parent with mental health issues and I am so afraid they will think we are overreacting or underreacting or negligent or well you know the list goes on. Why cannot the dr just tell me what to do with her? Her dad says to just wait for it to go away. Am I crazy?