Please just get your daughter in. Your mental health is irrelevant here. My kids have asthma and speaking only from my own experiences no time that i have ever taken them in to be treated has my mental health had anything to do with it. Personally i wouldnt have cared if it had come up. I was there for my kids. It wasnt about me. I'll do whatever i can (within boundaries) to take care of them. They mean everything to me. Im not at all saying you dont care about your daughter. Just simply encouraging you not to be worried about what anyone else thinks about you. Youre there for your daughter, and it sounds like she needs your help right now. Id encourage you to please get her in for her sake. Please. Best wishes and i hope your daughter feels better soon.