Hello bebop,

The one thing that drives every relationship we have, positive or otherwise is emotion, even lack of emotion is a driver in relationships because emotion owns us.

Imho I believe that when we untie the knot of the emotions we have, we can begin to work out where we stand, how our emotions were developed, whether that development was good for us or not so good for us and what we aim to do to get them healthy. When we become the owner of the emotion instead of the other way around, we can have some peace and decide for ourselves what we want to do...

We all have different ideas I know and this has been a really interesting thread to read.