Hello Neri,

I needed to take a chill pill half way through reading this! I'm not judging you in any way. I do think that it doesn't matter if you haven't done anything yet. In your dreamer mind you are trying to talk yourself into doing so. And worse you are thinking of hinting someone else into doing so. To him "Keeping it simple" may mean no emotions included...sex and friendship only you are not allowed to care....???

And because you claim "I haven't done anything wrong" doesn't mean you will not do anything wrong...

OK lets try this...you are this mans wife...he is out spending his time with another woman that you have just found out about. He hasn't slept with her yet but how do you know that he won't? He spends upto 2 hours talking to her online...How does this make you feel?