All I want is for him to pursue me a little more. I mentioned this and he said that he's already got me, why pursue me. But then he gets upset when he finds i've been flirting with and enjoying the attention of someone else. Well, maybe if he gave me more attention I wouldn't need to be getting it from someone else.

And he can find every reason in the book to not come see me, but I make a trip to see him once a week, every week (weather and health permitting). I put off family stuff (which I hate going to anyway) to see him. Or if I can't put it off I invite him to come with me.

I don't feel that he's being the man in this relationship. He seems to be becoming more and more passive about us.

I sent him an e-mail last night telling him this. He has yet to respond. And it wouldn't suprise me at all to find out he's not coming tonight because something's come up (he's not feeling well, or he's tired). Maybe our age difference is too big and that's our problem.