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The posts that refer to someone- but not named, thus a “hidden” bad person, leave me wondering—is it ME-- the “hidden” bad person – once again—just like when I was little?? How can one know?

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if you choose, then PM the person and ask nicely. that's the assertive approach.

personally, since i'm not that assertive, i wouldn't do anything. to quit worrying about it, i would tell myself that everyone has a right to his/her opinion blah blah blah and we are all here for support blah blah blah.

either way, it's easy to get stuck worrying about something you have no control over. i hope you can let go of the worry soon. (((((((((((huggs))))))))))))