Hey Joanie,
since your breakup is fresh, it's not easy to switch and be instant friends right away. I admire and advocate trying to be friends but it might be too painful for you at first - tugs at the heart strings too much. It's an easier transition for the one who requested the breakup. You may find you need some time without contact but that's up to you. Take good care of yourself because it's easy to get run down.