thanks susan888, never thought about it in that way-- cooler in summer and warmer in winter- I can appreciate that.
and lynn-- thank you, yes it does feel good knowning someone else feels the way I do about this
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Thanks for bringing this up. I was beginning to think I was the only one who doesn't like the totally bald look. I prefer the well trimmed look and yes it does remind me of a child.
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I sometimes have "exaggerated" feelings towards some things due to trauma-- I was wondering if this was one of those times
..... but.... maybe not, if there are others that feel similar and don't have child abuse/trauma in their history.
splitz-- maybe hair there for men was to keep "things" warm there(like Evening just said-- after your post) A bit of insulation/protection-- perhaps??
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I can see where your coming from Fins, on the child look, I never thought about it like that, and though I'm "bald" does not make me look like I have a child part. I hope you dont think if some people are bald that there going for a child look, cause thats not the case at all with me,
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thanks for understanding where I'm coming from Yoshi
I don't think bad of you(you are so sweet) or anyone else that likes going "bald" there. (but I do wonder if women are helping to encourage a sexual attraction towards child-like genitals... it just makes me nervous... ugh)
I think it's more the "idea" of the appearance and how a man could be attracted to that-- seems like such a close/tiny step then for a man to be turned on to a child.... I think I'm having a problem with that.
I thought that having hair there as a HUGE characteristic that sets women apart from little girls --- and being sexually active with a child-like part... well....
it feels upsetting to me....
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that is my stuff and NOT a reflection on you or anyone else.....
just my stuff.... ugh....
best to all
fins