Hi Numbers, I can understand, Have sorta been in asimiliar spot, like you, i have never cared about anyone more in my life than my friend too. Like you, I also am not positive exactly what he has, though i know hes struggling with something. Couples counseling sounds excellent, How did he like the idea? I was thinking of maybe double therapy for my friend and i also. Im doing ok, like you, some tough days, some good days, but i know i have to take care of myself first in order to help someone else, you mentioned he has been struggling for a bit, did you notice his symptons more when you started dating or were they there when you were friends first?