Thank you all for your input.
50guy - I really appreciate your response. I agree with pretty much everything you shared, however my husband is a rotten communicator. He has a pretty explosive temper when he's confronted with any thing he percieves as criticism, no matter how many different ways I approach him. He's a lousy listener as well. The past four arguements we had were long drawn out miseries because he THOUGHT I was saying something that I hadn't. This may be why I'm relying on my guts here. Never a good thing. I hear you about the trap. It would be a lousy thing for me to do. After I cooled down, I realzed it wasn't in me to do. Not in my charactor.
Oh, thank you for your service.

Marjan - I'll definately check out the movie...