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Originally Posted by 50guy
As far as getting someone to trap him....that is just wrong. Also it just might backfire, LEO's are very good at picking up on a scam, especially dealing with women. A woman that comes onto him may just find herself in jail for soliciting for prostution and then she would spill the story about your little game of entrapment. How would that play out in your relationship?
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Hello 50guy
I want to state up front that this is just a discussion
Now I know that not all police have affairs I'm not that silly, but to think that it isn't the norm is incorrect. You are probably a really nice man true to your wife and your wedding vows, I commend you for that. It would be nice if there were more like you. Some police become unusually stroppy because they are used to being the talker not the talked to. They don't like being questioned and get quite nasty if they are confronted. I saw one officer at a BBQ put his fist through the wall to the side of his wifes head, because she asked him why his ex-affair was at the BBQ...
A woman would only be taken in for solicitation if money is mentioned. As a police officer you would know that. The women who do this PI work are very professional. They do not hit on the men, the men always hit on them. It is not entrapment. And honestly if you think that no police officer plays up, you do need to think again. A womans gut feelings are rarely wrong, it's called a womans intuition.
A man is a man before he is a police officer, and there are so many women attracted to the uniform, and I've seen many an officer use that to their advantage. I do not know of one police divorce over the nearly 30 years I was married to a police officer that did not happen because of infidelity...My ex husband ended up being too cocky..he was under investigation for sexual harrassment, but all of his troops and his police friends managed to keep it hidden from me.