I believe you are right. He actually told me he was a misogynist. But would you believe that if somebody told you ? I thought real misogynists don't go around and say they are. When I told him I didn't believe it, he seemed relieved and said I was right. How odd is that ?
Now I start wondering if in fact he doesn't have a woman in each city. The story of the *****y secretary doesn't sound as preposterous anymore (she said he had a girlfriend but that he neglected her). She may hate me and want to get rid of me but that would fit the misogynistic picture so well (everybody else said that he was a single, but what does that mean ????). On the other hand no woman at all, ever again, fits the picture just as well and explains a lot too.
And have you ever met someone who told you he was alone that evening, at home, and when I said he shouldn't neglect his girlfriend answers in a very provocative tone he should go to her then, shouldn't he? He always makes fun of me. I always feel a hidden agressive feeling behind it.
His best friend said he had a lot of female clients because he was single, but he wouldn't elaborate. When I said to him I was a bit shocked by what I heard, he seemed very cross at his friend and said that he never lied to me (when he said that he was single or when he said he had a girlfriend???). Weird. He then told me this story about his ex who left him years ago and he was so GLAD she did.
The more I think about it, the more twisted it gets. He has definitely issues with women. I just wonder how ugly the truth really is. As a lesson I guess.
Do you make any sense of such a weird behavior???? I don't. How can you not feel stupid ?