Thanx for the info, but I think its to late! Because yesterday when he was arpung me and my phone rung and he ask who it was and I said I don't know because the number was not programed in my phone.and then he said call them back cause they know you, and I knew who it was it was my foster brothe who I had not heard in years and I just did not want him to think anything, so he called the number back which was not my brothers phone but a guy on the vm came on and he said this was a guy, and I said well its my foster brother, he said I've never known you having a foster brother, which I never told him was because I had not heard from him in years.then I tried to show him a text message that I sent to my brother that would have proved it was my brother, and he said he didn't want to see and that I don't have to explain nothing to him! What do I do?