Hey Life,

I don't know if this will help you any or not but I figured I would share too. I'm in a relationship right now and I have DID. My mate does the best he can to help me out. I recently was kicked out of an bad living situation and moved in with my mate. I sorta know what your GF is going through. Its a rough road and especially hard when you have more than one opinion to deal with. My mate told me that one of my littles, Molli, came out and had a similar discussion with him as Lisa did with you. My reaction was don't listen to her, just don't communicate with her, it will be fine. Well, it wasn't. Molli got upset that I wasn't listening to her once we moved and she took off. We weren't missing for long since he came looking for us but that fact was I didn't want to deal with other feelings that I essentially had. After Molli and him sat down and talked things have been better between all of us. She still gets upset at him but its FAR better than what it was before now that Molli knows that he is on our side and not like the ones we were being hurt by. Safety is essential for her.

Maybe you should sit down with your GF and tell her maybe you all, including Lisa, need to discuss this move and Lisa's feelings towards you. Don't push the subject though to much with your GF cause sometimes it has the opposite effect (I'm not saying you would by no means but just that happens with my mate and I when he doesn't mean too.) I feel like in order to make my recent move continually working there needs to be open communication between my mate, my littles, and I. That might be the key for your GF, her littles, and yourself.

If you ever need to talk we are here for you.