Good job Lynn.
I too wasn't sure where I stand in this issue for a looooong time. Mainly because of my parents' attitude. I was caught while at it !! I didn't even know what I was doing. Anyways, my mom didn't talk to me for a week and kept giving me dirty looks in addition to that. After exactly one week she said that only naughty, dirty kids did such things and I was brought up better that that. I think she even cried.... So, I felt like I was going to go to hell for just that...lol
But now I know it's normal. And that it's not some thing that would cause eternal damnation!