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Rhiannonsmoon · Aug 06, 2010, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by neri

If I had a husband I'd hate it if he spent time with other women, but then again, I'm insanely jealous and possessive.

So it would be wrong if someone did this to you, but not if you do it to someone else?

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Besides, I don't really see how is it my job to consider his wife's feelings.

I just don't understand people..

So if someone came along and interfered in your marriage KNOWING you were married, it wouldn't bother you at all even though you are insanely jealous? Who's job is it? The husband? the wife? If you knowingly entice a married man you are deliberately ignoring his wife. That is being someone of questionable character.

And you don't understand people saying "hey have a conscience and do the right thing" ? It's a matter of the argument; you want this and you're wanting us to say "hey go for it" and because we are not you say you don't understand people.

The addage in my head is "Do as you would be done by". I think you've already decided and are looking for the same urging on and support that your friends have given you. Well when they have to face this same situation in their marriage I hope they remember urging you on to incite someone to break their marriage vows.

Really neri I hope you are able to sort this out and handle it maturely and don't get hurt yourself either