(((elliemay)))

How hard that your T is out of town right now, when you feel low and have stuff you need to say. When does he get back? I can see why this comment felt hurtful. I think I would have reacted in the same way. I hope you'll be able to tell him how that comment made you feel.
Hang in there. Sending good thoughts and warm wishes your way.
We're here for you. Hope you will keep posting.

E

ps. I hope your head feels better. Have you tried some aspirin? I once dropped a 3 lb weight on my head (oops) and had a similar lump. Ice and aspirin helped out a bit. Ow.