Feary, I wasn't trying to suggest that your life is over (it isn't, by the way, it's still going! ), I was just trying to say that jumping to conclusions can hurt someone's feelings.

If I posted asking for help, and someone said "you don't want to get better" I'd be mortified! Imagine trying to reach out, and feeling like you got a slap in the face?

I'm just trying to make sure that you know that the OP is indeed looking for help.