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Originally Posted by Belle1979
If HPV wont be passed on or anything like that then.. is there really a worry? Does he need to know this early on?
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i believe HPV can get passed on to any future partners a guy might have. my sister has it as well and it can be quite serious. she's okay now but it was looking bad for awhile. she almost had to have a complete hysterectomy.
i think marjan is really wise to take the sex stuff slowly and not just because of this. sex does make one more attached. it's part of our physiology.
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I think that you have to just jump in at the deep end. If you don't give it your all you will never know what could have/will be. Maybe there is hurt on the way but maybe there isn't - don't want to spend the rest of our lives wondering!!
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belle, i don't think giving it your all means one has to jump in at the deep end. i think going slowly is just wiser and you can give your all but just not at the first few dates. why would anyone give their heart to someone they don't know or trust? trust is built by getting to know someone and seeing if they are trustworthy. it's not a blind leap. think of it just as you would when making friendships. jumping into friendships is usually not a good idea and with relationships it is even more so.
