Hello jennifer,

This must be very stressfull for you. Theres nothing wrong with supporting your bf through this time, but if he is reactionary then it is probably a good thing you are there with him so that you can talk him into not reacting.

If he is going to be seeing his children then it is very much your business because they will be seeing you too and you will be in their lives, not to mention living with their dad.

Just be very quietly self composed and dignified and talk him into being the same way. She may not expect that but that won't matter. Being the best you can be in every situation is the best thing to do...

Good luck,

Rhiannon