Jax...!!!
That is a very interesting observation about online dating. Like you, I wonder how people meet their "lifemates" thru that venue, since I've only met players and users.
Dublin75, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you to meet prospective partners. Try to focus on your own life, finding contentment, and finding interesting activities, interest groups. Probably a better chance of meeting a man that way than thru the Internet singles.
Seeker