I don't think he didn't want to hear about my issues around vulnerability/control.

I had a moment of vulnerability with another human being, and is was nice, but he thinks I am having some sort of secondary reaction to it, that, well, isn't so nice.

His problem centers on the way I'm coping with that putative secondary reaction -with food, or lack thereof. He didn't want to hear about that maladaptive coping technique. Not one word. He just wants me to fix it.

I know it's not good, and something is going on but it's hard you know?