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Originally Posted by elliemay
I don't think he didn't want to hear about my issues around vulnerability/control.
I had a moment of vulnerability with another human being, and is was nice, but he thinks I am having some sort of secondary reaction to it, that, well, isn't so nice.
His problem centers on the way I'm coping with that putative secondary reaction -with food, or lack thereof. He didn't want to hear about that maladaptive coping technique. Not one word. He just wants me to fix it.
I know it's not good, and something is going on but it's hard you know?
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Do you mean he doesn't want to hear about the vulnerability, or he doesn't want to hear about the control issues and food. I'd seriously doubt that he wants you to fix your issues with food all alone. He is there to help you with this. What makes you think he doesn't want to hear about this, did he say anything specific?