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Originally Posted by Oceanwave
Do you mean he doesn't want to hear about the vulnerability, or he doesn't want to hear about the control issues and food. I'd seriously doubt that he wants you to fix your issues with food all alone. He is there to help you with this. What makes you think he doesn't want to hear about this, did he say anything specific?
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Well, he told me that he didn't want to hear about how little I'm eating, or the calories or anything. I was just going to have to have the self-discipline to eat. This aspect was up to me. He's right of course, about the self-discipline. But damn. This is the first time this problem has manifested in the way.
When he returns, he said that we would work on the core issues of regaining control after I have a vulnerable moment, and how and why I feel that way afterwards.
He just doesn't want to hear the struggle with food. I think he might be scared, or just giving himself permission to leave by throwing this back on me alone. It's hard to say.
But I can promise you this, he won't hear another word about it until I fix it, or don't.