ok i am simon you know me as mellors, i have a problem,my frinds ghost's son is living with is mother, against his will,imo, he lived with me for the lasrt 6 years , and there is nothing anyone can do do help me because he made a choice, i think he made a destruction in his chioce, i phone him every day, but it makes me worthless without him , and i talk to him every day without faill, and it makes my herat hake (sp), , my problem is i if it was up to me my son would be living with me now , but that is not the case , i have given my son the choice to choose what he want to do, is it the riight choice, of do you dis agree, please help, any comments wil be helpfull.