Many times when it seems like people are whispering things about you they aren't even paying attention to anything outside their own little world. And the ones that are so shallow to say nasty things are usually unsure and selfconsious about themselves and try to lift themselves by putting others down. Don't let them bring you down. Know yourself that you are a good person and a strong person having to deal with so much. And you can use your strength to ignore all the nastyness around you.