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Originally Posted by Envision
Two things stand out at me here, the comments you made how you tend to scare guys away and your cooment that you seem to attract guys who don't have it all figured out. Some here think it correct to blame the guy for 100% of every relationship that doesn't work out, it simply couldn't be me. I think from your post that your're smarter than that. Why do you scare guys off? Just because you seem to "attract" a certain type of guy, does that mean you have to date or sleep with him? No. So that leaves the question why are you chosing the guys you do? It's more popular here to simply agree with the poster than provide insight that may help you make better decisions for yourself. I would concentrate more on your actions than trying to figure out his. In any event, I do hope things get better for you. Post updates to your situation.
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Sorry?
This came out of left field. Lost needs support and is looking for it.
She didn't say from what I have read, that everything is a guys fault or responsibility.
And when we are first attracted to someone we have no idea of their personality type, problems or issues. So her question as to why she attracted those types is a valid question.
You are showing yourself to be much less than supportive and lost doesn't need that right now, she is in pain and is hurting.
It isn't a matter of agreeing with the poster, it is a matter of agreeing with what one agrees with, and disagreeing with what one disagrees with. Calling people sheep in that regard is an insult.