Why is it when you seem to get into a numb feeling and you seem to to be just living day to day without going into a deeper funk, that a family member has to go in and reopen though wounds to drag you back down? Recencently my father did just that. Why can't they just leave it alone. I was doing okay until this last Friday when my father decided he was going to try and fix my problem. He got all my family members together and had to hash out what was going on. My problems can not be fixed by him. He can't just talk to who ever he wants and like that it get fixed.. Why can't he just understand that I only need his love and an ear for listening. It is no wonder that all my life I have tried to fix things and felt like a failure when I could not fix things. I realize now that not everything can be fixed just by money or interference, just by having a heart and and ear is a big help for those who need it.