Well, I guess I'm supposed to be nice and everything, but sorry this pi$$e$ me off. Like you haven't contributed anything to the marriage. I been there. My first husband who didn't want me to work then tell me he made all the money and everything is his etc. We split up when I got a job. Maybe you can't work. Have you tried SSI? I know it's a marriage and you must get along and you're not working because you can't and the emphasis is on can't. But it's not fair to you to take this. I took a lot of stuff for a lot of stupid reasons. I agree that she needs a bipolar education. Look into help for you moneywise. That little sentence has been in her mind a long time. She just finally said it. It wasn't just off the wall. Even if she said it was. Hugs, Owl