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Yoshi · Aug 09, 2010, 06:34 PM

Sooo, I've just been wondering what the hell is in chicks minds now'a'days.

I'm 17, My friends are around the same age. My bestfriend [ from back in the day ] got prego at age....14 !! And she wanted too ! She purposlly got pregnate. She told her boyfriend she was taking the pills, when she really wasnt...and boom....she got what she wanted.And now she regrets it. [ and also, she's now 17, prego with her second =| ]

Most of my chick friends are pregnate, I have atleast 9, and all are prego or already had a kid, except for 3 [ including me ]

Most of them want pregnate, and get prego on purpose, or not use protection, knowing its a possibility, but they still do it !!!!

Most of them regret it once the babies here.

My Bff Maine, got prego on birth controll, she regrets ever doing it, and regrets still not being safe with protection. But she does not regret her son. She even talks to teenagers about it, thats what I think is so nice, that she's sharing her experience and letting people know how hard it is at a young age. She's trying to make a difference, letting them no babies are cute, but hard to take care of.

But most chicks want pregnate....why? I can understand wanting kids, I want some, But having a baby at a young age is tough, and I want to go to college, get a job, and if I had a kid my teenage years would be over, and it would be time to step up and be a mom...thats what I dont get... Most chicks know this, how hard it would be, but they still get prego?

I've lost my V-card at a young age, and I regret it... But I was smart enough to make sure I had protection, Birthcontrol, anything I could think of.

And whats up with this whole " if your not having sex, your not cool" I dont get it. And another thing, having sex to show off? Its pathetic.

Thats all I really had to say.

Sorry it was just on my mind, sorry if this might have offended some people =/

Also, sorry that it was a long post, hope I didnt bore people to death