Thanks Fool I can't be sure that she's never "done anything"...honestly I try not to think about it too much. Just like imagining my parents having sex, some things are best left to the imagination. I do wonder if she wants or has wanted to bring this up, but I know there's no way my wussy self would bring it up I need to grow a pair and at least talk to T about it - you were right in what you said in the other thread. I'll approach the subject lightly to begin with.