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Originally Posted by Eliza Jane
I find my T's weight triggering for the opposite reason. She is extremely fit (runs marathons) and I am somewhat overweight. I feel like she is secretly judgmental of me and would like me more if I were thinner.
I think the bottom line is that weight is a very difficult and painful topic for many of us.
EJ
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I feel the same way....and although the topic of my weight has not entered into therapy, I am pretty sure it will at some point....My T is very body oriented - and is convinced that what we do to our bodies has a psychological meaning to it...meaning, I'm overweight for some reason other than eating too much and not getting enough exercise....
I do not want to talk about that....because I would hate to think that my T finds me repulsive because of my weight....