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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
I feel the same way....and although the topic of my weight has not entered into therapy, I am pretty sure it will at some point....My T is very body oriented - and is convinced that what we do to our bodies has a psychological meaning to it...meaning, I'm overweight for some reason other than eating too much and not getting enough exercise....
I do not want to talk about that....because I would hate to think that my T finds me repulsive because of my weight....
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I have been seeing this T for about 3 yrs now and we have finally broached the weight issue. It has been uncomfortable, but helpful too, I think. For example, I discovered that I tend to overeat after spending time with my mother. Hmmm...coincidence? We talk a lot about eating to "stuff" feelings. I somehow didn't realize how much I do this!
T has been gentle about it and trying to prevent me from feeling overly attacked. She also talks about overeating rather than me being overweight--a slight distinction, but it somehow feels better to me.
I haven't yet had the guts to bring up her weight and my fear that she looks down on me. Maybe someday we'll get there too.
Best,
EJ