and internet dating!!! I have been chatting to one guy for about a year, we met, he is a raging alcoholic with a few other bits of baggage. I met one guy who seemed very nice, we met twice and then nothing!! I agree, they are players, in the sense that, they will chat to you and get into your mind with the charming and thoughtful things they say.... dont believe it, a genuine person is the one that you would find in the supermarket looking at old vegetables or meals for one!! Take care good people!!