I do understand your point. I probably am too involved. But that doesn't make me feel any better about the situation. Perhaps I should instead ask, how do I make myself feel better about this right now? And in the future, if the worst thing does happen and my mother leaves my father for another man, how do I cope with such a loss? I'm not sure I could ever forgive my mother for doing something like that, but she has always been so important to me.

I know I need to seek counseling and plan on using the free therapists at my school once I go back at the end of the month. I just plain feel so distraught about this. I'm constantly searching for a way to feel better and nothing is working. Thank you all for your responses and support.