(((( (((( acrazynao )))) ))))

He could have shut down because he may have got a very nasty fright when you mentioned the d word? He may not have realised it had gone that far?

May be re-approach him by explaining what you just explained to us. That even though he is so much a part of your life, even when he drives you crazy, that you sometimes have to deal with the emotions generated by the bi-polar.

Those emotions will be up in the air and down in the mud dear ((((acrazynao)))) and if you can explain to him that it is the bi-polar causing your thoughts and emotions to be somewhat contrary to what you sometimes whish to say and put forward.

I really hope you are able to sort this out because as PS said, it is obvious you still love and care about your dh...please keep us updated so that we can continue to support you,

Rhiannon