Hello (((( ((((luvsthebeach)))) ))))

What a sad situation for you all to be in. Personally feel that he is an opinionated abuser. Sounds like my nieces partner. Obviously the child was schooled in what to say to you about the father that is a serious concern because that child is going to grow up to be just like him, deceitful, abusive and obsessive because those traits become learnt behaviours if not inherited behaviours.

I would have called welfare a long time ago but that is me and I am a different person to you. You are trying to maintain contact with a fragile family. I think that your daughter is either classically abused and doesn't know how to get out of it with 3 kids or she is as you say in denial. There is only one way to find out and that is to ask her if you can?

Please keep us updated so that you know you are supported and that we do genuinely wish to help you with this if we can,

(((( ((((HUGS)))) ))))

Rhiannon