Blue, some people in their 50's sex is important and some it's not. I happen to be in the not category. From the one's I've talked to it's important but not like it is when you're in your 30's. I was a nymph when I was in my 30's. It is also good to have a partner. But anybody bipolar or not has to be careful nowdays. And my experience shows me telling the partner I'm bipolar right off the bat and it shouldn't be an issue. If the person doesn't know about it, educate him/her. I have found that if they use that as an issue it's just an excuse. I want you to be happy and find the right partner. Hugs, Owl.