I have a friend who had sex with her t, and he dumped her. It is a very long story. The t even moved out of his house, planning to have a life with my friend.

Now, he won't even return e-mails or phone calls. She is devastated.

I've been in love with my t for 6 years and could write a book at what has transpired between us; we have a personal relationship as well as a professional one. He works really hard at keeping the boundaries (never has suggested sex), but is obviously very tempted. I am "afraid" that the incidence of client/therapist sex is widespread; I have done xtensive research on the subject. Matter of fact, my friend and I are writing a book regarding that subject. My t has said:"You are in my heart and in my head." "If I weren't married I would probably go for it." 100's of comments like that; he considers me a colleage. Things got almost out of hand last year, but he stopped. Feel free to privately e-mail me here or: wacalice@aol.com