I also agree with Lynn and Rhiannon. I feel it's natural to grieve an old relationship, but when one knows it's wiser to move on/forward, then it makes sense to keep on the road to progress. Sometimes others want to bring us down or weaken us. Remember your self-esteem and qualities and you have a right to be happy! It may seem foreign to you at times, but it's how you get used to being happy and having rights. So just move forward and perhaps it's best not to have discussions with people who bring you down or make you feel guilty. Be strong, happy and safe.