I cannot find an immediate danger and if I call and nothing is found amiss that day, then we get retaliation and more distance.

I only see psychological issues at this time. So we try to maintain close contact via phone with our daughter and trying to establish a relationship with the grand children. We also send many packages to show we care for them and talk on the phone. We just had our grandson up here (he is 9) and we took him to the fair and museum and had a really great visit. Grandpa helped him put legos together and went fishing too.