I am married because I'm a Christian now and he's a minister. I have lived with 2 guys and dated a lot more. My son was a chance I took on a lunch break you could say. He will be 35 tomorrow. I got fixed when I was 24 so it wouldn't happen again. Best decision or one of the best decisions of my life. I am happy now. It took a long time. I hope blue finds a partner and trippin and sug and everyone that wants one. It helps. Hugs, Owl.