Thread: Why?!?!?!?!?!
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Old Aug 10, 2010, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Yoshi View Post

And whats up with this whole " if your not having sex, your not cool" I dont get it.
I'm 22 and a virgin, and I hide it from people. On the weekend some people I was with started talking about oral sex and then one of them started talking to me about it like I'd actually done it, like it was a damn expectation that I'd shagged someone. I tried really hard to evade the topic and my male friend that was with me was trying to change the subject because he knows the truth to a lot of things. Of course someone suggested I was a lesbian.
It frustrates the hell out of me, that I have to HIDE it otherwise I'll be questioned as to why, and then everyone will end up finding out that I've also always been single, and then they'll want to know why, blah blah blah. The other thing that that pisses me off is that when people try and guess the reasons why, they always think I'm gay, prude can't get any or am religious, but nobody ever seems to consider abuse.
I am EMBARRASSED to let people know I am virgin.