((((((((((all the stars in the constellation)))))))))))

you guys are all very important and you are NOT just a pile of pieces. you matter. it's hard to think about doing stuff just to keep things 'happy' when that only seems to mean happy for him...not happy for you. that's hardly fair. i think you should talk to your T about it and tell him that the next time you and H are in T together that you want to talk about how you are always shoved aside. that just isn't right, w_i. you have as much a right to your opinion and your happiness as anyone else. maybe your T can help H see how he's running over you and help him to stop. you are a person worthy of consideration and respect...to treat you any other way is wrong and unkind.

(((((((((((all of you)))))))))))) please take care and stay safe. if you ever want to talk, you know where to find me.


shadow