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Originally Posted by zooropa
I totally get that, MUE. It IS embarrassing for me, as an adult woman, to admit to feelings of abandonment or attachment to T. I have thoughts that I should be over that by now, or stronger than that. But I know that I have these issues not because of some inner failure of my own but because of the failures of the people who were supposed to take care of me when I was growing up.
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Zoo, did you address this with T? It makes me sick to my stomach to think about having that discussion with T. I don't want to feel attached. The emotional involvement is torture to me....It's like that teenage surge of drama when one little thing happens and the world is falling apart....
Blech. I prefer to be distant and rational....which I guess doesn't really work well in therapy. Double blech.